"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being labeled as a "friend"

circa1369

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When you first meet a girl, how do you prevent yourself from being labeled as a "friend" any other tips on how to make the right first impression would also be helpful
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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S0LID

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confidence, being social, flirting, teasing.
 

J2K

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Just don't get to the point where she starts telling all of her problems and what not to you. You'll know when 'cause she'll be treating you like another one of her girlfriends.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Be confident, attract her sexually and don't always have time for her. If you make yourself casually available on YOUR TIME and unavailable on her time then you'll get her when you want.



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