"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys,
So during the last 2 weeks, I've f-closed 3 different chix. The best I have done so far. However it seems like when u show the girls that u're not judgemental, they are more likely 2 open up to u. 4 all 3 girls, at some point in the convo, I asked them wat turns them on, and when they ask me, I tell them that I like a woman who is confortable w/ her sexuality n who's not affaid to express, n stuff like, basically just showing them that I won't judge them in any way if they put out 2 soon or watever. Idk if it was because of that or just bcuz I was very lucky.
Has a similar thing happened 2 some of u?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, thats a very good approach. Talking about sex, especially wild sex, gets chicks panties wet. STICK WITH THAT METHOD!

My version is slightly different, but essentially the same. I talk about how freaky I like it, and she will usually follow up. If she doesnt, I call her a prude for the rest of her life, and when she says she's not, I say "prove it." That hasnt worked yet, however.
 
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it's not sexual talk to get her horny, it's conveying you understand how women think and the social pressure they go through

it works
 
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