"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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being judgemental

l23

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Hey guys,
So during the last 2 weeks, I've f-closed 3 different chix. The best I have done so far. However it seems like when u show the girls that u're not judgemental, they are more likely 2 open up to u. 4 all 3 girls, at some point in the convo, I asked them wat turns them on, and when they ask me, I tell them that I like a woman who is confortable w/ her sexuality n who's not affaid to express, n stuff like, basically just showing them that I won't judge them in any way if they put out 2 soon or watever. Idk if it was because of that or just bcuz I was very lucky.
Has a similar thing happened 2 some of u?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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horaholic

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Yes, thats a very good approach. Talking about sex, especially wild sex, gets chicks panties wet. STICK WITH THAT METHOD!

My version is slightly different, but essentially the same. I talk about how freaky I like it, and she will usually follow up. If she doesnt, I call her a prude for the rest of her life, and when she says she's not, I say "prove it." That hasnt worked yet, however.
 

ready123

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it's not sexual talk to get her horny, it's conveying you understand how women think and the social pressure they go through

it works
 
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