"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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l23

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Hey guys,
So during the last 2 weeks, I've f-closed 3 different chix. The best I have done so far. However it seems like when u show the girls that u're not judgemental, they are more likely 2 open up to u. 4 all 3 girls, at some point in the convo, I asked them wat turns them on, and when they ask me, I tell them that I like a woman who is confortable w/ her sexuality n who's not affaid to express, n stuff like, basically just showing them that I won't judge them in any way if they put out 2 soon or watever. Idk if it was because of that or just bcuz I was very lucky.
Has a similar thing happened 2 some of u?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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horaholic

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Yes, thats a very good approach. Talking about sex, especially wild sex, gets chicks panties wet. STICK WITH THAT METHOD!

My version is slightly different, but essentially the same. I talk about how freaky I like it, and she will usually follow up. If she doesnt, I call her a prude for the rest of her life, and when she says she's not, I say "prove it." That hasnt worked yet, however.
 

ready123

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it's not sexual talk to get her horny, it's conveying you understand how women think and the social pressure they go through

it works
 
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