"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being in STATE

Pozitron

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It would be great to hear the opinion of NorwegianDj on this one, but not only... (saying this because I know he watched the blueprint too).

So... YEA I'm in state man! Feels great . So basically it was a normal day and I wanted to go out alone in a park. Its kind of unusual for me just to go alone where there are just a lot of people simply because I usually go somewhere with a purpose.

Strange thing happened. I thought I'll relax, but I go out and I get this stupid feeling: like anxiety or something. All of the sudden I'm walking fast and all tensed up... I get there and just walk around. At that point I was just in my head, feeling that "fear" --- basically considering that people are judging you. Awkward. Never imagined it would be something like pushing my comfort zone--- guess I don't really know myself that well.
Anyway, I was clearly out of state.
What to do?
Well I thought of the concept of resisting and I didn't resist it. I accepted that feeling. Then I thought of that part of the blueprint: that scenario with your mind not giving you the instruction manual:nono: . So then , can't explain how.. I got into State.

It was great!!! So I was smiling "for no reason" ( never done it while waking along the street), making eye contact with people, walking slowly, being super relaxed and totally outside my head ( not 1 thought of how people think of me crossed my mind), just comfortable, chill and cool.
I have to tell you it was like a relief. It's really great to be authentic and genuinely happy, not wearing any mask... Whoa... Like letting go... It is cause I still feel the same way. Now THIS is JUST BEING YOURSELF. This is being the best of yourself.
I really can't describe it better. AWESOME! It's addictive.

Now, tell me if you had a similar experience ( I bet you had) and if it was similarly ( as in the way you felt).
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Dude, I cant really describe being in state.

I'd say there's several levels of state, and different forms.

State is said to be a relaxed, talkative, confident state. Your reaction time is lowered, you talk to people automaticly, you do what you want. It can be compared to drinking, just better.

It has a lot to do with momentum. Momentum is big generally.

Jeffy says "You dont ask if youre in state" "When youre in state, you're like IM IN ****EN STATE BTCHEEEES! WOOOOOOOOOO".

I know it as being really social, high energy, disregarding of outcome and really confident state.

It's like.. You dontt know how to describe it, but you definately know it when you see it.
 

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I don't know if it's because I'm 20, and I was 15 5 years ago, but I really couldn't follow what was going on here.
 
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