"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being in STATE

Pozitron

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It would be great to hear the opinion of NorwegianDj on this one, but not only... (saying this because I know he watched the blueprint too).

So... YEA I'm in state man! Feels great . So basically it was a normal day and I wanted to go out alone in a park. Its kind of unusual for me just to go alone where there are just a lot of people simply because I usually go somewhere with a purpose.

Strange thing happened. I thought I'll relax, but I go out and I get this stupid feeling: like anxiety or something. All of the sudden I'm walking fast and all tensed up... I get there and just walk around. At that point I was just in my head, feeling that "fear" --- basically considering that people are judging you. Awkward. Never imagined it would be something like pushing my comfort zone--- guess I don't really know myself that well.
Anyway, I was clearly out of state.
What to do?
Well I thought of the concept of resisting and I didn't resist it. I accepted that feeling. Then I thought of that part of the blueprint: that scenario with your mind not giving you the instruction manual:nono: . So then , can't explain how.. I got into State.

It was great!!! So I was smiling "for no reason" ( never done it while waking along the street), making eye contact with people, walking slowly, being super relaxed and totally outside my head ( not 1 thought of how people think of me crossed my mind), just comfortable, chill and cool.
I have to tell you it was like a relief. It's really great to be authentic and genuinely happy, not wearing any mask... Whoa... Like letting go... It is cause I still feel the same way. Now THIS is JUST BEING YOURSELF. This is being the best of yourself.
I really can't describe it better. AWESOME! It's addictive.

Now, tell me if you had a similar experience ( I bet you had) and if it was similarly ( as in the way you felt).
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NorwegianDJ

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Dude, I cant really describe being in state.

I'd say there's several levels of state, and different forms.

State is said to be a relaxed, talkative, confident state. Your reaction time is lowered, you talk to people automaticly, you do what you want. It can be compared to drinking, just better.

It has a lot to do with momentum. Momentum is big generally.

Jeffy says "You dont ask if youre in state" "When youre in state, you're like IM IN ****EN STATE BTCHEEEES! WOOOOOOOOOO".

I know it as being really social, high energy, disregarding of outcome and really confident state.

It's like.. You dontt know how to describe it, but you definately know it when you see it.
 

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I don't know if it's because I'm 20, and I was 15 5 years ago, but I really couldn't follow what was going on here.
 
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