"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not Quite There

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ha, this thread reminded me of something my brothers mate said.

he reckons that since he got a beer belly he pulls way more, because girls are now less intimidated by him and he's more approachable!

haha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybnoob

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The funy thing is 1 reason why i have been afraid to approach women is becuase i know it will end up in us having sex and well im very self concious of my gut. You could call it a pot belly. The funny thing is the rest of my body is skinny except for my gut and arse. Its like the fat goes straight to my stomach and arse and forgets every else. iTS WEIRD cos my arms and legs are very skinny.
Anyway that hinders me in approaching girls, so i say definately losing the weight is a must for ones self esteem
 

FM 3321

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I think deep down every man does something because he wants sex with women. We try to do spectacular things in order to have sex with women like build skyscrapers, freeway, planes, fancy cars and even making our bodies look good for them.


I went to this place where everyone floats down a river and the types of girls who I thought were hot were with guys who had sexy fit bodies. If that's part of what it takes I'll do it. With a sexy fit body, a successful attitude and all the wealth of knowledge and wisdom from this site and seduction community it will be a great thing.
 

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I'm in Austin too. Austin is one of the fittest cities in the nation, so there is a lot of competition in the looks department.
 

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Originally posted by manicmaximum
I started working out to look better for chicks. I think a lot of us fall into that category

but once you start taking it seriously, that stops. you don't think to yourself, "man, one more rep will mean 5 lays! so I have to push one more time"

there's a line you cross where you start to do it for personal reasons, to push your limits and to better yourself.
I can also vouch for that. You might start out trying to impress the ladies, but you end up doing for yourself, and because you never want to go back to being that fat lard you used to be.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FM 3321

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
I'm in Austin too. Austin is one of the fittest cities in the nation, so there is a lot of competition in the looks department.
Yeah, Austin is full of beautiful women. I'll do whatever it takes to take advantage of the situation.
 
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