"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Not Quite There

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ha, this thread reminded me of something my brothers mate said.

he reckons that since he got a beer belly he pulls way more, because girls are now less intimidated by him and he's more approachable!

haha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The funy thing is 1 reason why i have been afraid to approach women is becuase i know it will end up in us having sex and well im very self concious of my gut. You could call it a pot belly. The funny thing is the rest of my body is skinny except for my gut and arse. Its like the fat goes straight to my stomach and arse and forgets every else. iTS WEIRD cos my arms and legs are very skinny.
Anyway that hinders me in approaching girls, so i say definately losing the weight is a must for ones self esteem
 

FM 3321

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I think deep down every man does something because he wants sex with women. We try to do spectacular things in order to have sex with women like build skyscrapers, freeway, planes, fancy cars and even making our bodies look good for them.


I went to this place where everyone floats down a river and the types of girls who I thought were hot were with guys who had sexy fit bodies. If that's part of what it takes I'll do it. With a sexy fit body, a successful attitude and all the wealth of knowledge and wisdom from this site and seduction community it will be a great thing.
 

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I'm in Austin too. Austin is one of the fittest cities in the nation, so there is a lot of competition in the looks department.
 

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Originally posted by manicmaximum
I started working out to look better for chicks. I think a lot of us fall into that category

but once you start taking it seriously, that stops. you don't think to yourself, "man, one more rep will mean 5 lays! so I have to push one more time"

there's a line you cross where you start to do it for personal reasons, to push your limits and to better yourself.
I can also vouch for that. You might start out trying to impress the ladies, but you end up doing for yourself, and because you never want to go back to being that fat lard you used to be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FM 3321

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
I'm in Austin too. Austin is one of the fittest cities in the nation, so there is a lot of competition in the looks department.
Yeah, Austin is full of beautiful women. I'll do whatever it takes to take advantage of the situation.
 
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