lokariototal
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Is being in love a big AFC mistake, or is just a critical component that needs to be there in a relationship with a girl? What do u think?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Being in love: for AFCs or for alpha men?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
First, do yourself a favor and stop separating the world into "AFCs" and "Alpha men". Next, stop thinking that being successful with women means not having feelings.
It's NEVER about what you feel. Most of the time you can't change that. It's what you do about it.
It's NEVER about what you feel. Most of the time you can't change that. It's what you do about it.
I think this AFC/Alpha male thing is being blown way out of hand.
AFC = CHODE, YOU HAVE EMOTIONS
Alpha Male = NEVER COMPROMISE, BEAT YOUR GIRL TO SHOW DOMINANCE
Well not exactly, but you get the idea. Dude, it's totally fine to be in love with a girl that you're in a serious relationship with, if you are really an "alpha male" and not pretending to be an alpha (and I use the term alpha male loosely, I'd honestly rather just say "not a chode/pushover" or "confident guy" because calling someone an alpha male nowadays just screams tool in my opinion) there is nothing wrong with making yourself vulnerable by having affectionate feelings towards a girl you're seeing. You can still have the same "alpha" qualities you had before and still be in love with a girl, it doesnt make you any less of a man.
AFC = CHODE, YOU HAVE EMOTIONS
Alpha Male = NEVER COMPROMISE, BEAT YOUR GIRL TO SHOW DOMINANCE
Well not exactly, but you get the idea. Dude, it's totally fine to be in love with a girl that you're in a serious relationship with, if you are really an "alpha male" and not pretending to be an alpha (and I use the term alpha male loosely, I'd honestly rather just say "not a chode/pushover" or "confident guy" because calling someone an alpha male nowadays just screams tool in my opinion) there is nothing wrong with making yourself vulnerable by having affectionate feelings towards a girl you're seeing. You can still have the same "alpha" qualities you had before and still be in love with a girl, it doesnt make you any less of a man.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Best answer so far... W/e someone might be, Alpha male, AFC, blinded, in a wheelchair, waiter, life guard, W/E you can think of, have feelings which cannot be controled! Even if someone say that doesn't have feelings, it's a lie! He just pretends not to have or THINKS he doesn't have (which is a psycological problem).mikeyb said:
I can't recall if it was in this web site that I read that love is coming from nature and it's given to human so that he will stay with his mate, and protect him/her for 7 months till they have their baby (don't know why 7 and not 9 though)! It sounds pretty logical to me!
Even an Alpha can fall in love for someone!