lokariototal
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Is being in love a big AFC mistake, or is just a critical component that needs to be there in a relationship with a girl? What do u think?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Being in love: for AFCs or for alpha men?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
First, do yourself a favor and stop separating the world into "AFCs" and "Alpha men". Next, stop thinking that being successful with women means not having feelings.
It's NEVER about what you feel. Most of the time you can't change that. It's what you do about it.
It's NEVER about what you feel. Most of the time you can't change that. It's what you do about it.
I think this AFC/Alpha male thing is being blown way out of hand.
AFC = CHODE, YOU HAVE EMOTIONS
Alpha Male = NEVER COMPROMISE, BEAT YOUR GIRL TO SHOW DOMINANCE
Well not exactly, but you get the idea. Dude, it's totally fine to be in love with a girl that you're in a serious relationship with, if you are really an "alpha male" and not pretending to be an alpha (and I use the term alpha male loosely, I'd honestly rather just say "not a chode/pushover" or "confident guy" because calling someone an alpha male nowadays just screams tool in my opinion) there is nothing wrong with making yourself vulnerable by having affectionate feelings towards a girl you're seeing. You can still have the same "alpha" qualities you had before and still be in love with a girl, it doesnt make you any less of a man.
AFC = CHODE, YOU HAVE EMOTIONS
Alpha Male = NEVER COMPROMISE, BEAT YOUR GIRL TO SHOW DOMINANCE
Well not exactly, but you get the idea. Dude, it's totally fine to be in love with a girl that you're in a serious relationship with, if you are really an "alpha male" and not pretending to be an alpha (and I use the term alpha male loosely, I'd honestly rather just say "not a chode/pushover" or "confident guy" because calling someone an alpha male nowadays just screams tool in my opinion) there is nothing wrong with making yourself vulnerable by having affectionate feelings towards a girl you're seeing. You can still have the same "alpha" qualities you had before and still be in love with a girl, it doesnt make you any less of a man.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Best answer so far... W/e someone might be, Alpha male, AFC, blinded, in a wheelchair, waiter, life guard, W/E you can think of, have feelings which cannot be controled! Even if someone say that doesn't have feelings, it's a lie! He just pretends not to have or THINKS he doesn't have (which is a psycological problem).mikeyb said:
I can't recall if it was in this web site that I read that love is coming from nature and it's given to human so that he will stay with his mate, and protect him/her for 7 months till they have their baby (don't know why 7 and not 9 though)! It sounds pretty logical to me!
Even an Alpha can fall in love for someone!