"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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being her therapist?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil

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NO - Rule #x Never be a girls therapist.

"If you solve a womans problems, you become their
problem."

(How to Succeed with Women, Louis and Copeland)
 

Dayum itz jee

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im against it.. My thought is.. if you're a girls therapist you're her friend..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Hitman10000

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Listen to the girl's rant but try to lighten the mood up asap.
 

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"Modeling will identify you in her mind with her past lovers and at the same time give you the advantage over them by being seen as the hero for listening to her and giving her guidance.".

Since when do we want to be associated with her past relationships? I don't need some screw up guy from her past influencing the way I play my game. I'm a new person, and I am the future, not a reflection of her past.

Me thinks the original author tends to be stuck in the hollywood view of "The Knight in shining armour", as he rides along to take his mistress away from the jaws of the evil dragon. Or some pre-school crap like that.

Can anyone say emotional dependency?
 

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bigneil said:
"If you solve a womans problems, you become their
problem."

(How to Succeed with Women, Louis and Copeland)
Yes i think that's the best. If she's distracted by other problems she won't complain about you or think of you as a problem. At least not as much. They have to have something to get worked up about or the world will end and it might as well not be you.
 
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