"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being Hated by Women

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So I got a lot of chicks who hate my guts.

One broke a beer bottle in my face, some that when I try to call pick up and scream "Fvck You!" and hang up, and some that just plain don't like me.

I'm just wondering.. is this still better than being thought of as a harmless nice chump?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So these crazy b!tches love me?

That's hard to belive, they really hate my guts.

You gotta be joking, this can't be better.
 
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Women love me - Hors hate me - differentiate!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LMS, aren't ya usually calling them all wh0res?

And yes, a couple of these girls are indeed wh0res, and I know because I watched them suck d!ck for booze and money. The one that broke a beer bottle on my head was one of these losers. (She was like 14 BTW) But not all these chicks that hate me, are like this.
 

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Yeah I do. Mabye I should AFC myself a bit more. As these nice guy chumps who would do anything for them are getting a lot more ass than me.

But I heard that being hated is still indeed better than being thought of as a nobody.
 

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bambam said:
it is better to be feared than to be laughed at. it is better to be hated than laughed at. too many of you are laughed at. females don't dig a funny guy. they want someone who dominates.
My experience has shown me the exact opposite of that post. I'm a very feared person, and it's not helping one bit.

And back to DJ Damage, don't they have to respect me in the first place to get all worked up over me? Instead of just ignoring it and passing it off as nothing. That's what used to happen to me a few years ago they wouldn't care enough about me in the first place and just laugh at me or ignore me completley, now they just hate me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bvbidd said:
LMS, aren't ya usually calling them all wh0res?
How can a virgin be a hor?? How can a wife who is submitting to her husband be a hor?? Please explain?
 

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Bvbidd said:
And back to DJ Damage, don't they have to respect me in the first place to get all worked up over me? .
A chick that breaks a bottle over your face doesn't respect you.

Remember with women its actions that count not words. If they say sh1t to you but in the end of the day you are tapping their asses then they don't really hate you. When they like you, they end up submitting to you and not become a psycho aggressor who wants to hurt you.

Maybe you are just a prick and you think that by agitating some b1tch you are actually increasing her interest, either that or where you come from the women are really messed up.
 
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A chick that breaks a bottle over your face doesn't respect you.
She is a 14 year old hor - hors don't even respect themselves! I have no respect for Bvbidd to allow such an occurrence without defending himself!!!

Tell me Bvbidd what did you do to defend yourself?
 

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Bvbidd: Mabye I should AFC myself a bit more. As these nice guy chumps who would do anything for them are getting a lot more ass than me.
Why would you even want to lower your standards to get ass off a girl that doesn't respect you. Its not just about getting the ass, a girl doesn't deserve gettin d!ck off a guy whom she doesn't respect.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I called her a wh0re. She was one too. She was also being b!itchy and mean with me. She got angry and hit me with a beer bottle.
 
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Bvbidd said:
I called her a wh0re. She was one too. She was also being b!itchy and mean with me. She got angry and hit me with a beer bottle.
So you said the truth! The bottle on your head proved that your statement was true!!! How did you respond?
 

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wow... just wow... this is the same person that told me not to go after girls with high interest levels off the bat because she was a "hor."

btw is this some kind of joke? :crackup:

LMS: I know a person who is a hor that has yet to get laid. She lets guys finger her and uses her own candlestick. she asked me if I would take her virginity from her a couple days after meeting her. She is still a virgin and is a "pre-game hor."

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LMS: I know a person who is a hor that has yet to get laid. She lets guys finger her and uses her own candlestick. she asked me if I would take her virginity from her a couple days after meeting her. She is still a virgin and is a "pre-game hor."

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A virgin has had NO sexual contact with a man!! Comic, she is not a virgin!! She is a hor!

A virgin is one who is in sync with her femininity - which is tied to her virginity - her original nature!!!
 

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Bvbidd said:
Yeah I do. Mabye I should AFC myself a bit more. As these nice guy chumps who would do anything for them are getting a lot more ass than me.

But I heard that being hated is still indeed better than being thought of as a nobody.
Sounds like you are acting like I was upon first discovering the world of the DJ. The pendulum has swung too far the opposite of the AFC.

You have become too righteous and indignant, and people pick up on this. You have replaced AFC anonymity with overtly aggressive masculinity, and you are doing anything to not be that ignored AFC guy, including angering hors by speaking the truth to them. All for attention.

You don't need to tell a hor that she is a lousy, no-good hor, she already knows that. As long as you know that as well, then it need not be spoken.

That is why you got bottled. People don't want to hear the truth you know.

I mean, fair play for saying it, but you shouldn't have bothered.

I certainly wouldnt' waste my time going up to a street walker and calling her a hor, she already knows she's a hor, she's walking the street and performing tricks for money, of course she knows she's a hor!

Women who are sucking AFC **** in return for 'anything' are the types of women you shouldn't be bothering with. However, if you want the same action as your AFC friends and what they are doing is working, then do the same until you get some, then bolt immediately!

Only waste your time on non-horish women. But know that this situation with your friends is akin to what goes on in a strip bar, and you shouldn't be taking it seriously enough that you are actually pissing these hors off to the point that they are breaking bottles over your face.

You should use them for the hors they are if you want an easy lay and just be done with it. They don't want to hear your lectures, they just want to be like Paris and Britney, and they'll pay for it in the end.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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