"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being genuine really is very important

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the less i care about impressing a woman or her liking me, the more she is impressed by me and wants to be around me


Women are around men all day long who just want to talk to her to get in her pants and make it obvious. If you talk to her because you enjoy her company and want absolutely nothing in return, you will stand out immensely
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This mindset comes naturally with experience. Just like women are around needy men all day and become desensitized, so a man who sees many women will start to shrug off pesky thoughts of "this one's special..." when she's ultimately just another woman.

When recovering from a dry spell, Fake It Till Ya Make It is the order of the day.
 
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