"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being genuine really is very important

bigdave17

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the less i care about impressing a woman or her liking me, the more she is impressed by me and wants to be around me


Women are around men all day long who just want to talk to her to get in her pants and make it obvious. If you talk to her because you enjoy her company and want absolutely nothing in return, you will stand out immensely
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This mindset comes naturally with experience. Just like women are around needy men all day and become desensitized, so a man who sees many women will start to shrug off pesky thoughts of "this one's special..." when she's ultimately just another woman.

When recovering from a dry spell, Fake It Till Ya Make It is the order of the day.
 
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