"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being genuine really is very important

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the less i care about impressing a woman or her liking me, the more she is impressed by me and wants to be around me


Women are around men all day long who just want to talk to her to get in her pants and make it obvious. If you talk to her because you enjoy her company and want absolutely nothing in return, you will stand out immensely
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This mindset comes naturally with experience. Just like women are around needy men all day and become desensitized, so a man who sees many women will start to shrug off pesky thoughts of "this one's special..." when she's ultimately just another woman.

When recovering from a dry spell, Fake It Till Ya Make It is the order of the day.
 
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