"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being egotistical?

Michael Chief

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She's just an evil feminazi b!tch who hates you soley for the reason that you are a confident, natural, and attractive male. These girls aspire to wussify all the members of the male race and they never want to be turned on again.

I'm kidding. Well...almost.
Ok no, i wasn't really kidding (it's a cruel world!), but don't let things like "you're egotistical" faze you. They're just signs and cues that happen when you start doing things right. Keep up the good work!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ian Gots Game

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Snare, definitely do NOT take that accusation as a negative hit. Be a man, and be a confident one. I think most guys have heard that "2 ****y" bu11sh1t before. Use Ja Rule's advice and take it as a compliment :D In fact, I would bet the girl likes you and LOVES when you are "egotistical".
I'm noticing I seem more AFC to myself than before I actually starting trying to DJ.
Becoming a DJ is uncovering and exposing weaknesses in your game to your visibility. It establishes the things you need to work on and attempt to alter and self progress. No worries :)
 

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Originally posted by snareknight08
Well, with all that being said I guess I'm on my way to becoming a lil better with the ladies like I used to be.

Oh yeah, since this is my POST and all ;) I want to bring something else to the attention of everyone here and hopefully someone can tell me what is up with this:

I have this friend (he is also my neighbor) and we were on the bus one day and he was being stupid as heck, I mean downright retarded with this chick saying stupid things like: "Hey, you want to lay on my body pillow" (referring to his "parts") and she said, "I'm not tired." The next thing I know my friend is in the seat behind me with her hand in his pants. The thing that stumps me the most is: He can do this with any girl. HOW IN THE HELL DID / DOES HE DO IT?!?! :confused:

Oh, and also... I was stupid enough to try the same thing and got slapped... although I didn't just grab her hand and put it in my pants like he did.
The secret is to create enough of a subliminal dominant label...so much so you have enough power to LEAD them to do anything. This requires an extremely powerfully dominant meta frame and reality - and you're just leading her into it.
 

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Originally posted by snareknight08
Oh, and also... I was stupid enough to try the same thing and got slapped... although I didn't just grab her hand and put it in my pants like he did.
How did I know you'd try that also? :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It could have been a positive or negative remark, either way - dont think in to it to much. Listening to girls for advice is just stupid.
 
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