"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being egotistical?

Michael Chief

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She's just an evil feminazi b!tch who hates you soley for the reason that you are a confident, natural, and attractive male. These girls aspire to wussify all the members of the male race and they never want to be turned on again.

I'm kidding. Well...almost.
Ok no, i wasn't really kidding (it's a cruel world!), but don't let things like "you're egotistical" faze you. They're just signs and cues that happen when you start doing things right. Keep up the good work!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ian Gots Game

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Snare, definitely do NOT take that accusation as a negative hit. Be a man, and be a confident one. I think most guys have heard that "2 ****y" bu11sh1t before. Use Ja Rule's advice and take it as a compliment :D In fact, I would bet the girl likes you and LOVES when you are "egotistical".
I'm noticing I seem more AFC to myself than before I actually starting trying to DJ.
Becoming a DJ is uncovering and exposing weaknesses in your game to your visibility. It establishes the things you need to work on and attempt to alter and self progress. No worries :)
 

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Originally posted by snareknight08
Well, with all that being said I guess I'm on my way to becoming a lil better with the ladies like I used to be.

Oh yeah, since this is my POST and all ;) I want to bring something else to the attention of everyone here and hopefully someone can tell me what is up with this:

I have this friend (he is also my neighbor) and we were on the bus one day and he was being stupid as heck, I mean downright retarded with this chick saying stupid things like: "Hey, you want to lay on my body pillow" (referring to his "parts") and she said, "I'm not tired." The next thing I know my friend is in the seat behind me with her hand in his pants. The thing that stumps me the most is: He can do this with any girl. HOW IN THE HELL DID / DOES HE DO IT?!?! :confused:

Oh, and also... I was stupid enough to try the same thing and got slapped... although I didn't just grab her hand and put it in my pants like he did.
The secret is to create enough of a subliminal dominant label...so much so you have enough power to LEAD them to do anything. This requires an extremely powerfully dominant meta frame and reality - and you're just leading her into it.
 

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Originally posted by snareknight08
Oh, and also... I was stupid enough to try the same thing and got slapped... although I didn't just grab her hand and put it in my pants like he did.
How did I know you'd try that also? :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It could have been a positive or negative remark, either way - dont think in to it to much. Listening to girls for advice is just stupid.
 
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