"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Effective on Myspace... Please no flames

Driven2Succeed

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here is my Myspace page http://www.myspace.com/7321434

I will just start by saying, a lot of people underestimate how good of a "networking" tool Myspace is. I definitely am a huge advocate of meeting girls on there. Maybe it's because I have had good success with online dating and meeting people. Actually I kinda prefer it to meeting girls on cold approaches.

In my opinion the 2 best ways to meet females is either through friends in common or online.. since most of my buddies are married or in relationships, I tend to rely more heavily on the online thing..

I will be moving to a new place in about 2 months.. I am Army and move pretty frequently.. well, every 3 years anyways.. But this is an awesome way to use Myspace, Yahoo Personals, Black Planet, Migente..etc.. to meet new females.

To the haters.. sorry you feel the need to hate and judge..but thats ok, you are entitled to your opinions.. Women are important, but they definitely are at the bottom of my "to do" list.. Like I can honestly say that I have way more important stuff going for me, and they are at the bottom..

Biggest advice.. just be cool.. have fun, and do what you like.. and seek out others with same mentality..

Owen

ps - if ur cool and wanna add me, drop a message.. peace guys/ladies
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Driven2Succeed said:
here is my Myspace page http://www.myspace.com/7321434

I will just start by saying, a lot of people underestimate how good of a "networking" tool Myspace is. I definitely am a huge advocate of meeting girls on there. Maybe it's because I have had good success with online dating and meeting people. Actually I kinda prefer it to meeting girls on cold approaches.

In my opinion the 2 best ways to meet females is either through friends in common or online.. since most of my buddies are married or in relationships, I tend to rely more heavily on the online thing..

I will be moving to a new place in about 2 months.. I am Army and move pretty frequently.. well, every 3 years anyways.. But this is an awesome way to use Myspace, Yahoo Personals, Black Planet, Migente..etc.. to meet new females.

To the haters.. sorry you feel the need to hate and judge..but thats ok, you are entitled to your opinions.. Women are important, but they definitely are at the bottom of my "to do" list.. Like I can honestly say that I have way more important stuff going for me, and they are at the bottom..

Biggest advice.. just be cool.. have fun, and do what you like.. and seek out others with same mentality..

Owen

ps - if ur cool and wanna add me, drop a message.. peace guys/ladies
Good for you, seriously.

I am not just saying that because I wrote a book on it ;) I'm saying it because it's true.

To be honest, from a business standpoint, I have found methods to make money on Myspace without a penny of capital.

Similarly, you can get tons of dates from hot women without spending hours of time 'sarging' them in bars and clubs.

And for networking of any kind it is a gold mine.

There are over 100 million people using Myspace; how some of the guys here still view it as 'weird' and 'dorky' is really beyond my comprehension.

It is definitely worth taking a look at.

:up:
 

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I don't understand the hate either. I don't use myspace for pickup, but if it works for you, more power to ya.
 

milrenkb

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You got an excellent body but you should change the pic. Apparently girls say that shirtless pics in profiles are a turnoff.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1pz-KGhAmY

You'll find what I'm talking about 1:20 into the video
 
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