"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being Effective on Myspace... Please no flames

Driven2Succeed

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here is my Myspace page http://www.myspace.com/7321434

I will just start by saying, a lot of people underestimate how good of a "networking" tool Myspace is. I definitely am a huge advocate of meeting girls on there. Maybe it's because I have had good success with online dating and meeting people. Actually I kinda prefer it to meeting girls on cold approaches.

In my opinion the 2 best ways to meet females is either through friends in common or online.. since most of my buddies are married or in relationships, I tend to rely more heavily on the online thing..

I will be moving to a new place in about 2 months.. I am Army and move pretty frequently.. well, every 3 years anyways.. But this is an awesome way to use Myspace, Yahoo Personals, Black Planet, Migente..etc.. to meet new females.

To the haters.. sorry you feel the need to hate and judge..but thats ok, you are entitled to your opinions.. Women are important, but they definitely are at the bottom of my "to do" list.. Like I can honestly say that I have way more important stuff going for me, and they are at the bottom..

Biggest advice.. just be cool.. have fun, and do what you like.. and seek out others with same mentality..

Owen

ps - if ur cool and wanna add me, drop a message.. peace guys/ladies
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Driven2Succeed said:
here is my Myspace page http://www.myspace.com/7321434

I will just start by saying, a lot of people underestimate how good of a "networking" tool Myspace is. I definitely am a huge advocate of meeting girls on there. Maybe it's because I have had good success with online dating and meeting people. Actually I kinda prefer it to meeting girls on cold approaches.

In my opinion the 2 best ways to meet females is either through friends in common or online.. since most of my buddies are married or in relationships, I tend to rely more heavily on the online thing..

I will be moving to a new place in about 2 months.. I am Army and move pretty frequently.. well, every 3 years anyways.. But this is an awesome way to use Myspace, Yahoo Personals, Black Planet, Migente..etc.. to meet new females.

To the haters.. sorry you feel the need to hate and judge..but thats ok, you are entitled to your opinions.. Women are important, but they definitely are at the bottom of my "to do" list.. Like I can honestly say that I have way more important stuff going for me, and they are at the bottom..

Biggest advice.. just be cool.. have fun, and do what you like.. and seek out others with same mentality..

Owen

ps - if ur cool and wanna add me, drop a message.. peace guys/ladies
Good for you, seriously.

I am not just saying that because I wrote a book on it ;) I'm saying it because it's true.

To be honest, from a business standpoint, I have found methods to make money on Myspace without a penny of capital.

Similarly, you can get tons of dates from hot women without spending hours of time 'sarging' them in bars and clubs.

And for networking of any kind it is a gold mine.

There are over 100 million people using Myspace; how some of the guys here still view it as 'weird' and 'dorky' is really beyond my comprehension.

It is definitely worth taking a look at.

:up:
 

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I don't understand the hate either. I don't use myspace for pickup, but if it works for you, more power to ya.
 

milrenkb

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You got an excellent body but you should change the pic. Apparently girls say that shirtless pics in profiles are a turnoff.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1pz-KGhAmY

You'll find what I'm talking about 1:20 into the video
 
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