Being dominant ...masculine

[Tiguere]

How can you be the above .....whenever I try it it starts good but I quickly fall into the possesive controlling jealous type.

 

[Accension]

I'm putting the same effort into my reply .....as you did your thread.

 

[Proselytiser]

Try caring less

 

[kingsam]

I'm putting the same effort into my reply .....as you did your thread.

so true

OP you clearly havent even spent the effort looking yourself

 

[ATP]

Work on your confidence perhaps? Faking masculinity won't cut it. Get to the gym and get some testosterone flowing.

 

[Ease]

Work on your confidence perhaps? Faking masculinity won't cut it. Get to the gym and get some testosterone flowing.

every post this guy writes is good.

 

[WC2]

When people ask this people's first responses are always hit the gym. Which, yeah.. hitting the gym is good. But it's not going to make you less possessive.

Some of the most possessive sissies I know are huge guys who pump iron all the time.

You must learn to care less thru trial and error. Most guys are scared to care less and not give as much attention to women. These are the same guys who get nexted after seeing a girl for a few weeks.

You've got to TRY it once to see that it works. Try caring less. Don't put your heart on the table for her to slice to pieces. Make her do the work. At first you'll feel bad about it. But once you see that it's making her want you more, you'll swear by it.

And ontop of that, make sure you're always talking to other women. This allows you to take pressure off yourself. You're no longer worried about a single woman.

And when she starts showing affection towards you, it's OK to take baby steps and show her affection back. Just make sure it is warranted. In this way, you're training her to treat you well. When she doesn't treat you well, why should you be showing her affection? This trains her to treat you badly in order to get affection.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Normally this happens because you are either too controlling (wants the woman to behave the way you want) or she´s pushing all your buttons to make you jealous.

Either way, if you develop confidence you are likely be less possessive. Possessive people have a scarcity mentality and need to control the other. Another reason is that you´re madly in love with the woman, which is also not good as this implies she´s on a high pedestal.

 

[Tiguere]

Thanks guys amazing responses

 

[Dubh]

Just about every women wants to be treated like a kid so act like her father in a ****y/funny way for example I will go to a females house and if her room is kinda dirty i will tell her "the next time i come over this room better be cleaned or your getting a whoopin"