"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Accension
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kingsam
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Accension said:I'm putting the same effort into my reply .....as you did your thread.
so true
OP you clearly havent even spent the effort looking yourself
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
every post this guy writes is good.ATP said:Work on your confidence perhaps? Faking masculinity won't cut it. Get to the gym and get some testosterone flowing.
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Some of the most possessive sissies I know are huge guys who pump iron all the time.
You must learn to care less thru trial and error. Most guys are scared to care less and not give as much attention to women. These are the same guys who get nexted after seeing a girl for a few weeks.
You've got to TRY it once to see that it works. Try caring less. Don't put your heart on the table for her to slice to pieces. Make her do the work. At first you'll feel bad about it. But once you see that it's making her want you more, you'll swear by it.
And ontop of that, make sure you're always talking to other women. This allows you to take pressure off yourself. You're no longer worried about a single woman.
And when she starts showing affection towards you, it's OK to take baby steps and show her affection back. Just make sure it is warranted. In this way, you're training her to treat you well. When she doesn't treat you well, why should you be showing her affection? This trains her to treat you badly in order to get affection.
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Either way, if you develop confidence you are likely be less possessive. Possessive people have a scarcity mentality and need to control the other. Another reason is that you´re madly in love with the woman, which is also not good as this implies she´s on a high pedestal.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.