"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being Direct!!!!!

lgbs2004

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In the last weeks i've been experimenting being more direct and straightfoward with the girls i'm attracted to. I'm coming to the conclusion that all this game BS is useless. My success rate is getting better and better every day. I'm not saying that i'm getting all the girls i try to pickup but i'm having more success than before. Another thing that i notice is that 5 in 10 girls can't handle honesty, even saying they expect this from a man. What you guys think about this? Discuss!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok...Dude's in Brazil....

Different playing field....

Yep...no need to play games in that Crowd!

Lucky Bastard ! ! !

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Solomon said:
what do you say when you go direct?

I'm curious
Being straightfoward with your intentions, leting the woman know what your thinking. For exemple, if i think a girl is hot i go direct to her and say that shes hot; if i like her ass i tell her that i like her ass and so on...
 

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Çock-Star said:
Being direct is good in certain situations but telling a girl she has a nice a$$ is not really a good way to approach her. Most women don't respond too well about being complimented about there physicality. Of course if you can compliment there eyes or certain unique features they might have but anything more is borderline rapist. Usually a smile and a simple Hi! does it for me or I might compliment an article of clothing or accessory they might have. Again women put a lot of effort on HOW they look or HOW they are perceived so if you say something good or complimentary that would imply that you are paying attention to not only her physical aspects but her style or her choice of clothing etc.

Try to find a nice equilibrium and you'll start to feel the flow...
You make good points there but thats not my style. I'm talkin' about being honest, she knows what I want as a man, theres no use for me to try going under her radar. Like I said in the first post this is working for me, i'm getting laid doing this!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lgbs2004 said:
You make good points there but thats not my style. I'm talkin' about being honest, she knows what I want as a man, theres no use for me to try going under her radar. Like I said in the first post this is working for me, i'm getting laid doing this!
Mate you are in Brazil , if any of those lurkers reading this board do anything remotaly close as what you suggest, the only compliments involved would be the ones that they receive from the other inmante at the state penitentiary.

There's people arrested cause they stared at some woman boobs in an elevator after she purposely weared a XS t-shirt.

And again if pierce brosnan tells a girl that she has a juicy ass it's aggressive seduction, if an average joe does the same to the same girl it becomes harassment.
 

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Strelok said:
Mate you are in Brazil , if any of those lurkers reading this board do anything remotaly close as what you suggest, the only compliments involved would be the ones that they receive from the other inmante at the state penitentiary.

There's people arrested cause they stared at some woman boobs in an elevator after she purposely weared a XS t-shirt.
The United States imprisons the largest percentage of its population of any country in the world.
 
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acw said:
Ok...Dude's in Brazil....

Different playing field....

Yep...no need to play games in that Crowd!

Lucky Bastard ! ! !

:)
LOL LOL THE GUY IS IN BRAZIL :cool: IT MUST BE EASY TO GAME IN BRAZIL COMPARED TO LA, NY, MIA OR LONDON... THOSE PLACES ARE REALLY HARD TO GAME AT THE NIGHTCLUBS UNLESS YOU ARE LOADED WITH CASH MY FRIEND
 
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