"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Direct!!!!!

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In the last weeks i've been experimenting being more direct and straightfoward with the girls i'm attracted to. I'm coming to the conclusion that all this game BS is useless. My success rate is getting better and better every day. I'm not saying that i'm getting all the girls i try to pickup but i'm having more success than before. Another thing that i notice is that 5 in 10 girls can't handle honesty, even saying they expect this from a man. What you guys think about this? Discuss!!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok...Dude's in Brazil....

Different playing field....

Yep...no need to play games in that Crowd!

Lucky Bastard ! ! !

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Solomon said:
what do you say when you go direct?

I'm curious
Being straightfoward with your intentions, leting the woman know what your thinking. For exemple, if i think a girl is hot i go direct to her and say that shes hot; if i like her ass i tell her that i like her ass and so on...
 

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Çock-Star said:
Being direct is good in certain situations but telling a girl she has a nice a$$ is not really a good way to approach her. Most women don't respond too well about being complimented about there physicality. Of course if you can compliment there eyes or certain unique features they might have but anything more is borderline rapist. Usually a smile and a simple Hi! does it for me or I might compliment an article of clothing or accessory they might have. Again women put a lot of effort on HOW they look or HOW they are perceived so if you say something good or complimentary that would imply that you are paying attention to not only her physical aspects but her style or her choice of clothing etc.

Try to find a nice equilibrium and you'll start to feel the flow...
You make good points there but thats not my style. I'm talkin' about being honest, she knows what I want as a man, theres no use for me to try going under her radar. Like I said in the first post this is working for me, i'm getting laid doing this!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lgbs2004 said:
You make good points there but thats not my style. I'm talkin' about being honest, she knows what I want as a man, theres no use for me to try going under her radar. Like I said in the first post this is working for me, i'm getting laid doing this!
Mate you are in Brazil , if any of those lurkers reading this board do anything remotaly close as what you suggest, the only compliments involved would be the ones that they receive from the other inmante at the state penitentiary.

There's people arrested cause they stared at some woman boobs in an elevator after she purposely weared a XS t-shirt.

And again if pierce brosnan tells a girl that she has a juicy ass it's aggressive seduction, if an average joe does the same to the same girl it becomes harassment.
 

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Strelok said:
Mate you are in Brazil , if any of those lurkers reading this board do anything remotaly close as what you suggest, the only compliments involved would be the ones that they receive from the other inmante at the state penitentiary.

There's people arrested cause they stared at some woman boobs in an elevator after she purposely weared a XS t-shirt.
The United States imprisons the largest percentage of its population of any country in the world.
 
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acw said:
Ok...Dude's in Brazil....

Different playing field....

Yep...no need to play games in that Crowd!

Lucky Bastard ! ! !

:)
LOL LOL THE GUY IS IN BRAZIL :cool: IT MUST BE EASY TO GAME IN BRAZIL COMPARED TO LA, NY, MIA OR LONDON... THOSE PLACES ARE REALLY HARD TO GAME AT THE NIGHTCLUBS UNLESS YOU ARE LOADED WITH CASH MY FRIEND
 
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