"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being called adorable and cute = friend zone?

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I had a date with a woman on saturday night. She said I was ....so adorable and cute. Yet she seemed receptive to my physical advances on first date. Touching, kissing.
If you are a man how would you feel to be called adorable? I get that a lot since I have a baby face and feel like I am going to be friend zoned.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jack Hensy said:
I had a date with a woman on saturday night. She said I was ....so adorable and cute. Yet she seemed receptive to my physical advances on first date. Touching, kissing.
If you are a man how would you feel to be called adorable? I get that a lot since I have a baby face and feel like I am going to be friend zoned.
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Just means she likes you. Has nothing to do with friendzone by itself. Girls call me that all the time, then give me a blow-job a few hours later.
 
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all it means, is your are average or slightly above, you look ok, but not good looking enough to be called hot

lmao
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Remember to judge actions over words. Is she receptive to your advances? Eager to go on dates? Does she **** you?
 
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I understand your concern, because to me being called handsome, hot and sexy is much more of a compliment than say, cute or adorable. Cute is a decent compliment but things like adorable and gorgeous seem feminine. One time a girl I was dating told me all her girl friends agreed I was gorgeous and it made me wonder if I was giving off gay vibes or something. Girls call children and dogs adorable, it doesn't seem linked to sexual attraction the way cute and sexy do.

But ultimately I don't worry about it. All that matters is if she's trying to **** or not. It's meaningful for a girl to go out of her way to compliment you at all, especially if she's cute. They aren't like men who just catcall any breathing thing with tits.
 
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