"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being called adorable and cute = friend zone?

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I had a date with a woman on saturday night. She said I was ....so adorable and cute. Yet she seemed receptive to my physical advances on first date. Touching, kissing.
If you are a man how would you feel to be called adorable? I get that a lot since I have a baby face and feel like I am going to be friend zoned.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jack Hensy said:
I had a date with a woman on saturday night. She said I was ....so adorable and cute. Yet she seemed receptive to my physical advances on first date. Touching, kissing.
If you are a man how would you feel to be called adorable? I get that a lot since I have a baby face and feel like I am going to be friend zoned.
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Just means she likes you. Has nothing to do with friendzone by itself. Girls call me that all the time, then give me a blow-job a few hours later.
 
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all it means, is your are average or slightly above, you look ok, but not good looking enough to be called hot

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Remember to judge actions over words. Is she receptive to your advances? Eager to go on dates? Does she **** you?
 
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I understand your concern, because to me being called handsome, hot and sexy is much more of a compliment than say, cute or adorable. Cute is a decent compliment but things like adorable and gorgeous seem feminine. One time a girl I was dating told me all her girl friends agreed I was gorgeous and it made me wonder if I was giving off gay vibes or something. Girls call children and dogs adorable, it doesn't seem linked to sexual attraction the way cute and sexy do.

But ultimately I don't worry about it. All that matters is if she's trying to **** or not. It's meaningful for a girl to go out of her way to compliment you at all, especially if she's cute. They aren't like men who just catcall any breathing thing with tits.
 
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