How do you guys handle being blown off? I got blown off tonight. Girl wanted to hang out, said she wanted to sleep first, so i called her when she said. Then she said call back in 30, so i did, and no answer, whatdya know.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJHoolahoop
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I wouldn't say guilt her into feeling bad she blew you off, but sometimes that's the only way to get sincerity out of people.
But really, she blew you off cuz she was tired. If she was truthful about it, then maybe she was either in a rare situation where she was really tired OR she just didn't have enough interest.
Reschedule again, and if she blows you off the second time, tell her to find someone else lol. (not in those words, but you can figure something out)
But really, she blew you off cuz she was tired. If she was truthful about it, then maybe she was either in a rare situation where she was really tired OR she just didn't have enough interest.
Reschedule again, and if she blows you off the second time, tell her to find someone else lol. (not in those words, but you can figure something out)
Joe The Homophobe
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why do you want him to call again to be blown off again?
what you need to do is forget about this girl and wait to see if she calls you and apologizes. Then it is up to you whether you accept the apology and give her another chance, or you take revenge by blowing her off! if she calls you and doesn't even mention the incident or doesn't apologize, I would just get revenge and say something like give me a call, and then give her a taste of her own medicine and do what she did to you.
i've blown so many of my friends off for the dumbest reasons, and i never called to cancel on them, and i'm the one that set up the plans lol
but i can tell you what i've never done.
i've NEVER blown off a girl that i was into, and that would be likewise for a girl that was into you.
Sleep? please you got the rest of your life to get some sleep and when you die you'll have plenty of that
but i can tell you what i've never done.
i've NEVER blown off a girl that i was into, and that would be likewise for a girl that was into you.
Sleep? please you got the rest of your life to get some sleep and when you die you'll have plenty of that
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I'm with christz on this one. Last girl I was seeing, I asked her to come to Atlantic City with me. She had just gotten home from Atlanta after partying all night, tired as hell, plus she lost her ATM card so she couldn't get any money for gambling, and she STILL drove 2 hours from her house in VA to mine in MD so she could go with me.
If she's late to a date, call her up. If she isn't apologetic and doesn't ask for a second chance, she is either ignorant, unreliable, or not interested. In either case, she's history.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yeah, squirrles hit the nail on the head, but also one other thing don't confuse her intrest as she wants to date you, i mean i've known girls that weren't wholely intrested in a dude but right after work on a closeing shift went to his house.
and i've also made the mistake of a girl hangin out with me on a constant basis that she was really into me. lol boy did that backfire, when i was like lets take it up a level haha good times..
and i've also made the mistake of a girl hangin out with me on a constant basis that she was really into me. lol boy did that backfire, when i was like lets take it up a level haha good times..
squirrels post should be a guideline for guys trying to get dates from a girl. If a girl was wholesomely interested in you, she would use the words "maybe we can meet up next week or how about this day." - I wouldn't go for the "persistent" route like many hopeful rationalizing guys out there as you become the beggar than the "prize." There's a million fish out there, if you're not the catch, there will be another fish out there for you.