"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was dating this girl for a couple months and she betrayed me in such a terrible way. I found out, through one of her good friends--so needless to say i felt entitled to betray her back.

This is something i would never think of doing, but she hurt me so bad! Was it evil of me to tell her friend the bad things she said about her? Part of me thinks i should of kept my mouth shut, but i was just so hurt and caught up in the moment, that i wanted revenge!

It sucks getting used to someone, investing your time, and getting to know a person-- and they suddenly change and become a big disasterous disappointment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by chevelle
I was dating this girl for a couple months and she betrayed me in such a terrible way. I found out, through one of her good friends--so needless to say i felt entitled to betray her back.

This is something i would never think of doing, but she hurt me so bad! Was it evil of me to tell her friend the bad things she said about her? Part of me thinks i should of kept my mouth shut, but i was just so hurt and caught up in the moment, that i wanted revenge!

It sucks getting used to someone, investing your time, and getting to know a person-- and they suddenly change and become a big disasterous disappointment.
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What happened? what did she do?
 
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Lied to me about who she was and cheated around while dating me!

She ended up being into YAY (drug/coke) and i hate being around people who use drugs. Basically, she told me one thing and did the opposite!

She was hot, sexy, and a lot of fun, but the lies and betrayal hurt too much!
 
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Originally posted by chevelle
Lied to me about who she was and cheated around while dating me!

She ended up being into YAY (drug/coke) and i hate being around people who use drugs. Basically, she told me one thing and did the opposite!

She was hot, sexy, and a lot of fun, but the lies and betrayal hurt too much!
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Ima tell you something right now. If your ever going to get yourself into a Relationship.. You lay it down at the start. You let the girl know, Your not into the Relationship for B*S. You let her know, If shes going to lie to you, If shes not sure about being with you or if shes going to cheat on you... You tell her not to waste your time. You have to let the girl kno that at ANY!!! time you even smell B*S you will walk out on her and lose her number. I know it sucks when you invest time in someone that you may like. Also, a girl who does drugs is a total turn off. Learn from it and find someone who will treat you the same way you treat her.
 
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I was in total shock when i found out about her secret life! I guess i have to stop giving people the benefit of the doubt and stop being so naive!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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get out while it's still fairly early. It's tougher the longer you stay with her.
 
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cutting her out of your life, never thinking of her, moving on and finding someone better is the best sort of revenge you can have.
all those physical mind games are pointless (unless you have pics of her doings stuff to you, in which case: send them to her parents!)

you have nothing to gain by keeping contact with her. move on
 
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