"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being beta kills

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http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/06/1...octor-after-hospital-killing/?intcmp=trending

Cliffs -

- Army veteran prominent trauma surgeon suspected being linked to murder of a woman in NY hospital
- Manhunt ensues for the guy
- His body found with apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound
- Story is that he was paranoid and stalking his ex-girlfriend (the murder victim) for months after she broke up with him, colleagues noticed him acting strange in recent months, and ultimately he snapped, shot and killed her in the hospital, and went and shot himself

I guess this goes to show you that you could be a tough military man who can live through a war and rough military training and go on to become a trauma surgeon with a cool, calm, collected personality. But the underlying self-deprecating beta mindset can not be removed by anything external, no matter how rugged it may appear.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bat said:
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/06/1...octor-after-hospital-killing/?intcmp=trending

Cliffs -

- Army veteran prominent trauma surgeon suspected being linked to murder of a woman in NY hospital
- Manhunt ensues for the guy
- His body found with apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound
- Story is that he was paranoid and stalking his ex-girlfriend (the murder victim) for months after she broke up with him, colleagues noticed him acting strange in recent months, and ultimately he snapped, shot and killed her in the hospital, and went and shot himself

I guess this goes to show you that you could be a tough military man who can live through a war and rough military training and go on to become a trauma surgeon with a cool, calm, collected personality. But the underlying self-deprecating beta mindset can not be removed by anything external, no matter how rugged it may appear.

Discuss.
sorry not going to diss this dude

if a guy like this, a fvcking american hero can't find a hot chick to love him unconditionally, cook him dinners, and give him good BJs on a semi regular basis then we live in a truly fvcked up world.

what is beta in a world where women are 100% FUBAR?
 

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Burroughs said:
what is beta in a world where women are 100% FUBAR?
And really, this is my prime dilemna. Hating being alone for years on end, but not being that turned on by the idea of spending so much time and energy (not to mention funds) playing games with women that, in all honesty, i find to be lacking every ounce of intelligence i would expect from a good woman, not to mention ungrateful and ignorant of the sacrifices the ACTING man must make, everyday.

It distracts from so much to be discovered intellectually, as well as self discovery. I just feel too damn intelligent (not to mention GRATEFUL) to even bother!
 
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