"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being beta kills

The Bat

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http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/06/1...octor-after-hospital-killing/?intcmp=trending

Cliffs -

- Army veteran prominent trauma surgeon suspected being linked to murder of a woman in NY hospital
- Manhunt ensues for the guy
- His body found with apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound
- Story is that he was paranoid and stalking his ex-girlfriend (the murder victim) for months after she broke up with him, colleagues noticed him acting strange in recent months, and ultimately he snapped, shot and killed her in the hospital, and went and shot himself

I guess this goes to show you that you could be a tough military man who can live through a war and rough military training and go on to become a trauma surgeon with a cool, calm, collected personality. But the underlying self-deprecating beta mindset can not be removed by anything external, no matter how rugged it may appear.

Discuss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Burroughs

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The Bat said:
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/06/1...octor-after-hospital-killing/?intcmp=trending

Cliffs -

- Army veteran prominent trauma surgeon suspected being linked to murder of a woman in NY hospital
- Manhunt ensues for the guy
- His body found with apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound
- Story is that he was paranoid and stalking his ex-girlfriend (the murder victim) for months after she broke up with him, colleagues noticed him acting strange in recent months, and ultimately he snapped, shot and killed her in the hospital, and went and shot himself

I guess this goes to show you that you could be a tough military man who can live through a war and rough military training and go on to become a trauma surgeon with a cool, calm, collected personality. But the underlying self-deprecating beta mindset can not be removed by anything external, no matter how rugged it may appear.

Discuss.
sorry not going to diss this dude

if a guy like this, a fvcking american hero can't find a hot chick to love him unconditionally, cook him dinners, and give him good BJs on a semi regular basis then we live in a truly fvcked up world.

what is beta in a world where women are 100% FUBAR?
 

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Burroughs said:
what is beta in a world where women are 100% FUBAR?
And really, this is my prime dilemna. Hating being alone for years on end, but not being that turned on by the idea of spending so much time and energy (not to mention funds) playing games with women that, in all honesty, i find to be lacking every ounce of intelligence i would expect from a good woman, not to mention ungrateful and ignorant of the sacrifices the ACTING man must make, everyday.

It distracts from so much to be discovered intellectually, as well as self discovery. I just feel too damn intelligent (not to mention GRATEFUL) to even bother!
 
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