"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ragnar

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Every woman I have ever dated has said that they were attracted to me because of my "Could care less what others think attitude".

Guys in the friend zone try to console the women and talk about feelings etc... Remember it's okay to say things that are divergent from what everyone else says. Be a little crazy at times, say things that might make people a little uncomfortable. This makes you unpredictable and fun.


I never really honed this quality until I saw it work time and again.

Just a quick tip.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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biker_gixxer

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I have to agree with this, it works for me as well. The ****y&funny attitude works also, in my opinion. I know some people don't agree with it, but used at the right times, it does wonders.
 

Capi Crimini

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