"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ragnar

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Every woman I have ever dated has said that they were attracted to me because of my "Could care less what others think attitude".

Guys in the friend zone try to console the women and talk about feelings etc... Remember it's okay to say things that are divergent from what everyone else says. Be a little crazy at times, say things that might make people a little uncomfortable. This makes you unpredictable and fun.


I never really honed this quality until I saw it work time and again.

Just a quick tip.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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biker_gixxer

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I have to agree with this, it works for me as well. The ****y&funny attitude works also, in my opinion. I know some people don't agree with it, but used at the right times, it does wonders.
 

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