"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being attractive is bad?

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nan3109

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I read an interesting thread today that someday posted. I think that's my problem, lol, (****y, sorry).

Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, I DO model for a company but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.

I think that's why I've been depressed all my life and only now am starting to realize things. Or am I just ugly?

LOL, im confused!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Girls tend to not do this because they

a) Don't want to boost your ego
b) Don't want to scare you
c) some other stupid reasons too...

I've had girls give lots of signals or little signals but not compliment me at all UNTIL later in the evening after we've gotten to fooling around and ended inn bed and the compliments have poured out like niagra falls because they then feel confident and safe enough to be open.

Don't worry about it, it's not "normal" for girls to throw around compliments like that.
 
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Originally posted by nan3109
Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, I DO model for a company but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.
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You say this as if you think it's the GIRL'S responsibility to initiate the encounter. :confused:
 
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Models with Big and Tall don't tend to do so well. And yeah, it should be you who are doing the approaching, not the girl.:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by nan3109
I read an interesting thread today that someday posted. I think that's my problem, lol, (****y, sorry).

Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.

I think that's why I've been depressed all my life and only now am starting to realize things.

LOL, im confused!
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EXACTLY SAME FUKING THING WITH ME!!!

Im good looking with good build (6'1) , athletic, great personality

But all girls think that their not up to my level, thats why u have to go talk to them and show that ur superior
 
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I have the same problem. It was probably one of my threads you read. I have improved a good deal. The key is to approach and talk to them.

Being really good looking is like hunting deer with a spot light. You don't need any fancy tricks to get them to like you at first They are in shock. But you have to have the balls to pull the trigger on them. :p

This is my drunken tip of the day for you.
 
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hmmm...
are you a cute baby faced "good looking" guy?
Or more masculine, muscular etc.?

I guess the first one.


SEND US A PIC AND WE'LL JUDGE! :D
 
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So many good looking guys, how come hardly any of them post their pics...... i look like brad pitt..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by joey37
So many good looking guys, how come hardly any of them post their pics...... i look like brad pitt..
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lol, follow the thread link above this one (above yours) to see my pics:eek:
 
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There's nothing wrong with your looks.
Squirrels and Kinetic as well as others
have some good suggestions.
The way I interpret your comments I sense your a bit shy/reserved /or whatever and this is limiting your approaching others.
Try taking some initiative.
 
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