"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being attractive is bad?

nan3109

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I read an interesting thread today that someday posted. I think that's my problem, lol, (****y, sorry).

Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, I DO model for a company but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.

I think that's why I've been depressed all my life and only now am starting to realize things. Or am I just ugly?

LOL, im confused!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Girls tend to not do this because they

a) Don't want to boost your ego
b) Don't want to scare you
c) some other stupid reasons too...

I've had girls give lots of signals or little signals but not compliment me at all UNTIL later in the evening after we've gotten to fooling around and ended inn bed and the compliments have poured out like niagra falls because they then feel confident and safe enough to be open.

Don't worry about it, it's not "normal" for girls to throw around compliments like that.
 

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Originally posted by nan3109
Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, I DO model for a company but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.
You say this as if you think it's the GIRL'S responsibility to initiate the encounter. :confused:
 

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Models with Big and Tall don't tend to do so well. And yeah, it should be you who are doing the approaching, not the girl.:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Vigilante7

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Originally posted by nan3109
I read an interesting thread today that someday posted. I think that's my problem, lol, (****y, sorry).

Girls NEVER approach me, compliments me, or anything. I'm NOT ugly, but girls never come up to me, compliment me, or anything.

I think that's why I've been depressed all my life and only now am starting to realize things.

LOL, im confused!

EXACTLY SAME FUKING THING WITH ME!!!

Im good looking with good build (6'1) , athletic, great personality

But all girls think that their not up to my level, thats why u have to go talk to them and show that ur superior
 

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I have the same problem. It was probably one of my threads you read. I have improved a good deal. The key is to approach and talk to them.

Being really good looking is like hunting deer with a spot light. You don't need any fancy tricks to get them to like you at first They are in shock. But you have to have the balls to pull the trigger on them. :p

This is my drunken tip of the day for you.
 

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hmmm...
are you a cute baby faced "good looking" guy?
Or more masculine, muscular etc.?

I guess the first one.


SEND US A PIC AND WE'LL JUDGE! :D
 

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So many good looking guys, how come hardly any of them post their pics...... i look like brad pitt..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nan3109

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Originally posted by joey37
So many good looking guys, how come hardly any of them post their pics...... i look like brad pitt..
lol, follow the thread link above this one (above yours) to see my pics:eek:
 

NatureGuy

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There's nothing wrong with your looks.
Squirrels and Kinetic as well as others
have some good suggestions.
The way I interpret your comments I sense your a bit shy/reserved /or whatever and this is limiting your approaching others.
Try taking some initiative.
 
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