"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Being Asian Does It Deter Non-Asian Women?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sageproduct
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BongDuy
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If you want to break it down to a science, im sure girls that grow up with asian themes ( Martial artist backgrounds, Anime, Japanese music, etc ) then
they will more than likely be into asians. thats what i think
YoYoRocks
Don Juan
Do you look like a fob, nerd, have a thick foreign accent, or your appearance screams "I get no play"
Some girls have their preferences and will only go out with white dudes, black dudes, mexican dudes, whatever.
But it is weird that girls are just outright rejecting you, I'm pretty sure its not because your Asian, most likely other issues.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don Israel
Don Juan
Girls in America or Canada (particularly) don't care if a small asian dude can beat up a six-footer - they want MEAT.
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