"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Asian Does It Deter Non-Asian Women?

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djprophet

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i've noticed in my classes some american women will just straight out reject me and not even look because i am asian. do any of you guys know non-asian women that are like that and what is their reason behind it etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FairShake

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They won't even LOOK at you? That's pretty bad and I wouldn't worry about them then. It's common courtesy to smile and nod at classmates who walk by or sit down next to you. If they aren't even up to that then I can tell you they aren't worth your time.
 

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I'm asian, and if they don't like that then ****'em.
 

BongDuy

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If they dont even " look " at you, then it's just the girl being a total b1tch. Im Asian and I've only had 1 asian girlfriend and the rest were spanish. Through my Trip back to Nam I found out Asian girls LOVE me.

If you want to break it down to a science, im sure girls that grow up with asian themes ( Martial artist backgrounds, Anime, Japanese music, etc ) then
they will more than likely be into asians. thats what i think
 

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I'm from Central Asia.

Do you look like a fob, nerd, have a thick foreign accent, or your appearance screams "I get no play"

Some girls have their preferences and will only go out with white dudes, black dudes, mexican dudes, whatever.

But it is weird that girls are just outright rejecting you, I'm pretty sure its not because your Asian, most likely other issues.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don Israel

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being part asian myself, i would say work out, you'll stand out.

Girls in America or Canada (particularly) don't care if a small asian dude can beat up a six-footer - they want MEAT.



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Bruce Lee didn't have this issue even with his strong Chinese accent, in life and his movies. They were practically taking there clothes off in most of his movies..lol
 
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