Let me preface by saying that I'm 6'6". Wherever I go, I am always approached by woman telling me how tall I am, etc, etc. Many of these girls that say this are relatively attractive, and I would like to know any input you guys have onto what I should respond to this by? I usually do the basic thanks or just blow them off. Lately, I have been lying and saying that I'm 5'8" and they're just seeing me wrong (gay **** like that). Any responses would be greatly appreciated.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
EvilAgenda
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Attractive girl: Wow, you are really tall!
You: Hi shorty.
You: Hi shorty.
Mike32ct
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With all due respect, you are overthinking this. A chick that approaches you and calls you tall is quite attracted to you. You need very little game at that point.Rock22 said:
Just shoot the sh$t with her and get the number. What you talk about is not important at that point.
If you are at a bar or club, include kino with your fluff talk, include some playful joking (optional), and go for the pull.
If you feel you must use a c&f response, try this:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Must be the shirt.
Tallguy: Do you think this shirt makes me look tall lol? (Credit: Mystery)
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Don't you know that if a woman is attracted to you initially, there is very little you can do wrong?
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Yes I'm 6'5" and whenever a girl says "you are tall" it's basically a pick-up line. Though sometimes you do wonder what the heck to say in reply. Then you remember - as nismo-4 noted - it doesn't matter what you say if they are attracted to you - it's tone of voice and body language that matter most.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oneboy21
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Here is my opinion
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
Mike32ct
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Actually try this instead of the gay shirt line:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.