Let me preface by saying that I'm 6'6". Wherever I go, I am always approached by woman telling me how tall I am, etc, etc. Many of these girls that say this are relatively attractive, and I would like to know any input you guys have onto what I should respond to this by? I usually do the basic thanks or just blow them off. Lately, I have been lying and saying that I'm 5'8" and they're just seeing me wrong (gay **** like that). Any responses would be greatly appreciated.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Being approached by woman
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
EvilAgenda
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Attractive girl: Wow, you are really tall!
You: Hi shorty.
You: Hi shorty.
Mike32ct
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With all due respect, you are overthinking this. A chick that approaches you and calls you tall is quite attracted to you. You need very little game at that point.Rock22 said:
Just shoot the sh$t with her and get the number. What you talk about is not important at that point.
If you are at a bar or club, include kino with your fluff talk, include some playful joking (optional), and go for the pull.
If you feel you must use a c&f response, try this:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Must be the shirt.
Tallguy: Do you think this shirt makes me look tall lol? (Credit: Mystery)
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Don't you know that if a woman is attracted to you initially, there is very little you can do wrong?
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Yes I'm 6'5" and whenever a girl says "you are tall" it's basically a pick-up line. Though sometimes you do wonder what the heck to say in reply. Then you remember - as nismo-4 noted - it doesn't matter what you say if they are attracted to you - it's tone of voice and body language that matter most.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
oneboy21
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Here is my opinion
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
Mike32ct
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Actually try this instead of the gay shirt line:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.