Let me preface by saying that I'm 6'6". Wherever I go, I am always approached by woman telling me how tall I am, etc, etc. Many of these girls that say this are relatively attractive, and I would like to know any input you guys have onto what I should respond to this by? I usually do the basic thanks or just blow them off. Lately, I have been lying and saying that I'm 5'8" and they're just seeing me wrong (gay **** like that). Any responses would be greatly appreciated.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Being approached by woman
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
EvilAgenda
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Attractive girl: Wow, you are really tall!
You: Hi shorty.
You: Hi shorty.
Mike32ct
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With all due respect, you are overthinking this. A chick that approaches you and calls you tall is quite attracted to you. You need very little game at that point.Rock22 said:
Just shoot the sh$t with her and get the number. What you talk about is not important at that point.
If you are at a bar or club, include kino with your fluff talk, include some playful joking (optional), and go for the pull.
If you feel you must use a c&f response, try this:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Must be the shirt.
Tallguy: Do you think this shirt makes me look tall lol? (Credit: Mystery)
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Don't you know that if a woman is attracted to you initially, there is very little you can do wrong?
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Consider yourself blessed.
Case closed.
Yes I'm 6'5" and whenever a girl says "you are tall" it's basically a pick-up line. Though sometimes you do wonder what the heck to say in reply. Then you remember - as nismo-4 noted - it doesn't matter what you say if they are attracted to you - it's tone of voice and body language that matter most.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oneboy21
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Here is my opinion
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
If you want to get laid with those girls that are approaching you, that would be easy for you. You can take it to the next level easily.
Now are you trying to find a gf or true love. Why did you posted this question
Mike32ct
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Actually try this instead of the gay shirt line:
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.
HB: You're tall.
Tallguy: Nah, I'm only 5 foot 18 lol.
She'll giggle for two reasons:
1. She's already attracted to you so anything you say is funny.
2. Chicks can't do unit conversions lol.
But either way, "game" is not really necessary. You have a huge advantage that is your golden ticket.