"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being an Alpha while LTR gf is pregnant

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my ex wife was pretty ill in the early stages of having out kids, once over that plateau, the sex returned, IT SHOULDNT BE A PROBLEM!!!

Sometimes women use the sex as a hook they get the baby and the sexy time heads south, fortunately mine didnt.

if she is genuinely ill, not much you can do, if she can find time for other pleasurable pursuits then sex should be one of them too and you are being short changed if its not on the table
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alphamailman said:
Yeah because getting other girls pregnant behind your currently-pregnant girlfriend's back is the alpha thing to do.
is that aimed at me?
 
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