"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being an a$$hole?

Some Call Me Tim

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Hey fellas,

I want to know what works best. Of course it's easy to be dismissive and completely uncompromising with everybody you meet. Basically an a$$hole, and in all honesty, I hear about people having success by just throwing social convention to the wind and doing what they want. With women, in life, whatever!

On the other hand, there's the 'nice jerk' approach. We've all read countless threads about both, but the proof is in the pudding.

My question is:

Truthfully, which 'persona' have you had most success with? We know that each come with their own pitfalls, but which gets you the most a$$? Before I get jumped in on, I realise that we all aim to be naturally good with people, good with women, and good in life, so the term 'persona' implies a certain falsehood in our personalities. I can't find a better phrase, so it's what I'm using :rockon:

Cheers,

T
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chamber36

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well last time i got wasted on Jagermeister i felt myself slipping into the Perv Zone. It did wonders for my game.
So my persona would be the perv i guess. But you have to be a sophisticated perv. You just use different tools for different girls. Every club has a different vibe. If a girl is being stuck up, show her some ****y funny, or qualify her with some questions, ask if she's any more sophisticated than all the sloots everywhere.
I'd have to say the sophisticated ****y funny perv would be my persona. With a bit of douchebag mixed in aswell, for the 9's and 10's.
 

dudewut

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I am the funny/entertaining @$$hole, kinda like Dwight Stifler or Tucker Max in the movie "I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell". I cannot be the David DeAngelo's ****y and Funny type or the Roger Dodger type, I just look creepy I guess its because I got that criminal face and most people think I am mad by default so when I smile it kinda lighten things up.
 
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