"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being an a$$hole?

Some Call Me Tim

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Hey fellas,

I want to know what works best. Of course it's easy to be dismissive and completely uncompromising with everybody you meet. Basically an a$$hole, and in all honesty, I hear about people having success by just throwing social convention to the wind and doing what they want. With women, in life, whatever!

On the other hand, there's the 'nice jerk' approach. We've all read countless threads about both, but the proof is in the pudding.

My question is:

Truthfully, which 'persona' have you had most success with? We know that each come with their own pitfalls, but which gets you the most a$$? Before I get jumped in on, I realise that we all aim to be naturally good with people, good with women, and good in life, so the term 'persona' implies a certain falsehood in our personalities. I can't find a better phrase, so it's what I'm using :rockon:

Cheers,

T
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chamber36

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well last time i got wasted on Jagermeister i felt myself slipping into the Perv Zone. It did wonders for my game.
So my persona would be the perv i guess. But you have to be a sophisticated perv. You just use different tools for different girls. Every club has a different vibe. If a girl is being stuck up, show her some ****y funny, or qualify her with some questions, ask if she's any more sophisticated than all the sloots everywhere.
I'd have to say the sophisticated ****y funny perv would be my persona. With a bit of douchebag mixed in aswell, for the 9's and 10's.
 

dudewut

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I am the funny/entertaining @$$hole, kinda like Dwight Stifler or Tucker Max in the movie "I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell". I cannot be the David DeAngelo's ****y and Funny type or the Roger Dodger type, I just look creepy I guess its because I got that criminal face and most people think I am mad by default so when I smile it kinda lighten things up.
 
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