"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being Alpha Working In A Call Center?

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Hey all. First time, long time.

Was wondering there's this girl at work I've been flirting with recently in between calls at my telecom call center job.

She said she has a boyfriend but that I had cute hair and she loved my Armani suit (we have to dress professionally even though customers never see us, so strange! But least I look suave right?)

She actually gave me the number to her WORK device (we get free cell phone service, I work for one of the major telecom carriers, but this is a separate number we usually give only to customers) So we all walk around with our personal and work devices.

My question is is this a real number close or is this more like a stripper giving you her fake number as opposed to one just for her entertainment?

And is it possible hypergamy will rip her away from me? She's a 8.25/10, and here I am making the same money she is ($9 an hour.) Is it doomed to fail the moment she meets a guy making $12.50?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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we have to dress professionally even though customers never see us
Is the company you work for retarded?
So we all walk around with our personal and work devices.
At all times? I'd never take my work phone home.

She said she has a boyfriend but that I had cute hair and she loved my Armani suit
She said you had cute hair and a nice suit, not "I want to fvck you". A compliment doesn't mean you've got a shot.

My question is is this a real number close or is this more like a stripper giving you her fake number as opposed to one just for her entertainment?
You can probably throw the number away.

And is it possible hypergamy will rip her away from me? She's a 8.25/10, and here I am making the same money she is ($9 an hour.) Is it doomed to fail the moment she meets a guy making $12.50?
Oh yes absolutely, women don't give a sh!t about anything other than how much money a guy makes. /s

$9 an hour? That's like 1/3 of what I make, send her my way, she'll spread her legs open right away when I tell her I make 3 times as much as her. /s

Seriously, when will that fvcking cancerous mindset die?
 

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If she likes you She'll not dare to tell you she having a bf, I would kick her out.
 

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Naughty Ninja,

Guru must have screwed you badly enough for you to keep coming back.
 
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