"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being aggressive or sitting back....

Anfz

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Hey guys whats are your opinions to be aggressive with girls or laid back waiting for the girl to do her thing ? Ive got a example where i went to a friends party ,later on i found out all the girls thought i was by far the hottest in dere but my nature is just to sit back and wait for them to come,I have never been a pushy or aggressive kinda person bc i think i dont need to,but now im starting to think its the way,bc one of my mates whos not the best looking ,little bit overweight,but is very pushy ,persuasive,was there that night and he hooked up with 2 girls ,who admitted to me they dunno why they did it,they were drunk etc etc ,so whats your take on this whether it be in a club or anywhere for that matter ? thanks again
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yama600rr

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i dont know, it all depends on the girl bro. some girls hate guys that are pusshy and aggressive, they think its a turn off. in the case of your friend who hooked up with 2 drunk chicks. its not that he has game, its that they're drunk.
Also some girls like guys who are laid back, and chilled. just as long as when you do talk to them and that you're not a mute.
I say overall if a girl has to choose between a guy who is pushy and aggresive and a guy who is laid back, she would pick the laid back guy. its my opinion
 
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