Hey guys whats are your opinions to be aggressive with girls or laid back waiting for the girl to do her thing ? Ive got a example where i went to a friends party ,later on i found out all the girls thought i was by far the hottest in dere but my nature is just to sit back and wait for them to come,I have never been a pushy or aggressive kinda person bc i think i dont need to,but now im starting to think its the way,bc one of my mates whos not the best looking ,little bit overweight,but is very pushy ,persuasive,was there that night and he hooked up with 2 girls ,who admitted to me they dunno why they did it,they were drunk etc etc ,so whats your take on this whether it be in a club or anywhere for that matter ? thanks again
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Being aggressive or sitting back....
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