"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being AFC works??!!

GaryNas

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This girl I know started seeing a guy who she met at a club. I was there the first night she met him and he followed her everywhere, even waited outside the bathroom for her. For the next few weeks before they were dating he did the same thing, he didn't even talk to anyone else... it's like was on a leash. Apparently she even broke up with her ex-bf (of MANY years) to go out with this guy.

So what's the deal here?
:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by GaryNas
This girl I know started seeing a guy who she met at a club. I was there the first night she met him and he followed her everywhere, even waited outside the bathroom for her. For the next few weeks before they were dating he did the same thing, he didn't even talk to anyone else... it's like was on a leash. Apparently she even broke up with her ex-bf (of MANY years) to go out with this guy.

So what's the deal here?
:rolleyes:
Fame, money, power, contacts, connections

Could be a number of things. She likes the attention she's getting, etc.
 

undesputable

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would yall just stop posting and being so amazed at some guy who is an ass kisser getting some girl, ive seen like 5 threads with the same thing in like a week....really it has happened, is happening and it will keep on happening... being confident, funny and all the other stuff this site tells you to do is not the only way to get girls, is just the only way most men can afford to really attract women....
 

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You don't know the guy and the girl very well. If you think just because a guy follows around a girl makes him a puppy dog. It could be. But does she DISLIKE it? Some girls like loyal boyfriends - and if you knew him he probably knows how to hold his own against others.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thraxeh

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of course AFC can get girls, a DJ can get girls, but also make it so he can get on with his life, he makes it so that girls arnt everything. The dj's life is alot better
 
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