Being a **** vs. calling the shots

[tdotseoul]

I am confused by this.

Here's the background.

She's studying for LSAT and I have jack **** to do.

She's studying til late tonight and I call her to see what's up and she didn't pick up. Her sound and vibrate was off so didn't know and she sends me a message back explaining and sort of hints to call her back.

So, I send her a message back.

I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?

 

[TheException]

I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?

No. Its fine. Dont even waste time in your own head trying to figure out if it was bad or not. If she has a problem with this response Id consider that a red flag.

 

[MisterSisterFister]

I am confused by this.

Here's the background.

She's studying for LSAT and I have jack **** to do.

She's studying til late tonight and I call her to see what's up and she didn't pick up. Her sound and vibrate was off so didn't know and she sends me a message back explaining and sort of hints to call her back.

So, I send her a message back.

I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?

Men are not women, This is trivial. Don't think so much.

 

[VladPatton]

Don't obsess about being too nice. They sure as hell don't.