"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being a **** vs. calling the shots

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tdotseoul

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I am confused by this.

Here's the background.

She's studying for LSAT and I have jack **** to do.

She's studying til late tonight and I call her to see what's up and she didn't pick up. Her sound and vibrate was off so didn't know and she sends me a message back explaining and sort of hints to call her back.

So, I send her a message back.

I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheException

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tdotseoul said:
I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?
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No. Its fine. Dont even waste time in your own head trying to figure out if it was bad or not. If she has a problem with this response Id consider that a red flag.
 
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MisterSisterFister

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tdotseoul said:
I am confused by this.

Here's the background.

She's studying for LSAT and I have jack **** to do.

She's studying til late tonight and I call her to see what's up and she didn't pick up. Her sound and vibrate was off so didn't know and she sends me a message back explaining and sort of hints to call her back.

So, I send her a message back.

I only had an hour of sleep last night, so I'm gonna pass out. Call you tomorrow.

Does this sound douchee and inconsiderate?
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Men are not women, This is trivial. Don't think so much.
 
VladPatton

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Don't obsess about being too nice. They sure as hell don't.
 
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