"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why does this create some Type of spark or atraction that woman like?

They know you dont mean it but they still get butthurt about it but somehow her atraction
towards you increases or atleast keeps her hooked to the way you are?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well it all comes down to the whole "women don't like nice guys" thing.

They want a guy who's "dangerous" and "bad azz". I think it's because of their own insecurity (esp the hot ones)
 

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Because the nice, quiet guy is boring, safe and never causes an emotion. The absence of that spark is the absence of any potential for attraction. Sort of like bad publicity is still good publicity.
 

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Being an azzhole sparks primal emotions in chicks because the 99% of other guys they know are super-nice betas.
As above posters said, the nice guys are safe and boring; the azzhole presents a challenge - an anomaly in the matrix - which few women can resist.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Being an azzhole sparks primal emotions in chicks because the 99% of other guys they know are super-nice betas.
As above posters said, the nice guys are safe and boring; the azzhole presents a challenge - an anomaly in the matrix - which few women can resist.
I wonder If this only Works on girls that are bpd?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No, it works on 99%, but it's a matter of degree for each one.

The hotter the girl, the more you need the AH persona. The more quiet and sensitive the girl, the less you need.
 

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Jair213 said:
Why does this create some Type of spark or atraction that woman like?

They know you dont mean it but they still get butthurt about it but somehow her atraction
towards you increases or atleast keeps her hooked to the way you are?
Ahh... I see the very first rays of redpill knowledge are entering your eyes...

Jair213: Why do my eyes hurt SoSuave?
SoSuave: Because you have never used them Jair213...

You have never used them...
 

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so its all balance then?

being a sarcastic jerk then, throw in a sweet comment to her once in a while? push pull with it?
 

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Do it all with a twinkle in your eye and a good splash of humour and it's like chick crack.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They are attracted because they know you don't mean it and you're not afraid to say it. You then display some degree of being fearless and at the same time showing interest. Women scan for implicit meaning, while many guys go for explicit meaning.

I go directly to the source and fearlessly display my interest, that really gears them up. Doing it is however different from just saying you like her and stopping at that.
 
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