"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does this create some Type of spark or atraction that woman like?

They know you dont mean it but they still get butthurt about it but somehow her atraction
towards you increases or atleast keeps her hooked to the way you are?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well it all comes down to the whole "women don't like nice guys" thing.

They want a guy who's "dangerous" and "bad azz". I think it's because of their own insecurity (esp the hot ones)
 

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Because the nice, quiet guy is boring, safe and never causes an emotion. The absence of that spark is the absence of any potential for attraction. Sort of like bad publicity is still good publicity.
 

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Being an azzhole sparks primal emotions in chicks because the 99% of other guys they know are super-nice betas.
As above posters said, the nice guys are safe and boring; the azzhole presents a challenge - an anomaly in the matrix - which few women can resist.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Being an azzhole sparks primal emotions in chicks because the 99% of other guys they know are super-nice betas.
As above posters said, the nice guys are safe and boring; the azzhole presents a challenge - an anomaly in the matrix - which few women can resist.
I wonder If this only Works on girls that are bpd?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No, it works on 99%, but it's a matter of degree for each one.

The hotter the girl, the more you need the AH persona. The more quiet and sensitive the girl, the less you need.
 

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Jair213 said:
Why does this create some Type of spark or atraction that woman like?

They know you dont mean it but they still get butthurt about it but somehow her atraction
towards you increases or atleast keeps her hooked to the way you are?
Ahh... I see the very first rays of redpill knowledge are entering your eyes...

Jair213: Why do my eyes hurt SoSuave?
SoSuave: Because you have never used them Jair213...

You have never used them...
 

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so its all balance then?

being a sarcastic jerk then, throw in a sweet comment to her once in a while? push pull with it?
 

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Do it all with a twinkle in your eye and a good splash of humour and it's like chick crack.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They are attracted because they know you don't mean it and you're not afraid to say it. You then display some degree of being fearless and at the same time showing interest. Women scan for implicit meaning, while many guys go for explicit meaning.

I go directly to the source and fearlessly display my interest, that really gears them up. Doing it is however different from just saying you like her and stopping at that.
 
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