"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i got this promoting gig and basically i gotta promote around my campus, so i was thinking of getting my brochures and taping a tootsie roll to it and giving it to all the girls specially in my stats class clas of 200- 300 ppl with really cute girls, i read it somewhere on the site

good idea or DLV
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do you think they're gonna suddenly wanna fvck you just because you gave them candy? what's the point?

I was a club promoter back in college and take it for what it is - a non-creepy way to open anyone, strike up a conversation and practice your game and/or social skills. that's all
 
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well theyre not gonna want to **** me cuz i gave them candy .. but would it help to get them to the club
 
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so you don't care about hooking up and you just trying to pack the place?

that's easy. just pass out fliers to a TON of girls and hype the place up. then pass them out to guys and talk some nonsense about how a ton of girls are gonna be there and they should get there before 11 if they wanna get in. it's just numbers and word of mouth
 
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Man, I wouldn't want to be the guy who goes around handing out tootsie rolls, lol. Why don't you just sit by the cute girls and talk to them instead? Be sure to talk plenty in class and don't hide behind a wall of anxiety(this let's them know you have a personality).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, bad idea, this isn't a birthday party, most of my promoter friends don't even really go up to women to promote, they just hang the fliers on people's cars.
 
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